Weve been dating for six months
Running along this is finding in each other what you most need – someone who listens or someone who seems decisive; someone who is gentle or someone who is strong and confident. well, literally chemistry, in this case the oxytocin that fuels the sexual attraction and attractiveness, the obsessing about the other, the feelings of falling in love. You find you have a lot in common but her personality reminds you too much of your ex.Or you have a lot in common but there is no sexual attraction; you try to shift the relationship to friend status.You just have to let go of the current one to see them.But here’s the biggest reason to move on, and the one most of us are least aware of: right now there’s something better that might be available to you that will not be able to enter your life because you look “content.” You already have someone at your side, so there’s a “No Vacancy” sign above your head diverting anyone who might be interested in you. You think the only option you have is the one in your hands, but it’s not. What would happen if those other options knew you were single?If you want someone who lives passionately, has an interesting, fulfilling career, has tons of hobbies, fills the room with their personality and inspires other through their actions, then you need to be that kind of person, too. We settle for mediocrity in ourselves and yet expect to end up with Leonardo Di Caprio or Keira Knightley.The classic “double-standard.” If the double standard doesn’t apply to you, it’s possible you have too much patience. Part of being an adult is being tolerant and accepting of others’ flaws. Which is why you owe it to both of you to move on, and give each other room to find a better match.If they knew you were unhappy in that “thing” they saw you in?
But you don’t have to wait until someone cheats on you to break up with them. Because chances are there’s someone else out there who’s a better match for them than you are, too. Because I believe the American divorce rate isn’t due to people who were passionately in love but just drifted apart (although that happens, too).Tasha has been dating Sam for three months and it has been the best time in her life. Chris has been in a relationship with Kara for the past year.They immediately felt connected, the chemistry was hot, it was easy to see that he was a kind and considerate soul. While the first six months were great, it seems lately that things are beginning to slide.Or…for , join as a Bronze Member and support our mission. We have active communities of like-minded individuals working to change the world on important issues.Weekly facilitated calls that lead to the execution of real-world strategies for change. Invitation to the MEMBERS ONLY Good Men Project Community on Facebook.